I end up telling a lot of women and girls that they are not one of the guys — and just viewed as a “safe fuck for later”

You are just viewed as a possible hookup — benefits friend — or somebody that could be easily convinced to be a sexual partner. You are not actually part of their peer groups.

I find people have issues believing me… until shit hits the fan, they realise I am correct — and they move into man bashing or checking out lesbian-ism.

Oh right — I turn down any women who are wanting to out with me “because they are quiting men” as I’m well aware going with them is a TERRIBLE IDEA.

While I do not advocate man-bashing. I will state that men need to be held to much higher standards than they are allowed to get away with — which... also apparently makes me very uncool… or something.